The use of social media in the life of love are like two sides of a coin. Facebook , Twitter, Path, Instagram and Snapchat can be a medium to express the expression of affection to your partner. Social media can even 'bring together' mate from place unexpectedly.
But on the other hand, social media has the potential to destroy a relationship that has been established. Not infrequently romance barely or even drop out just because the post status and photos on Facebook to Twitter. Romance ended as a result of social media is not a figment or myth. Numerous studies revealed six ways social media can destroy your relationship can not be used wisely.
1. Too Many play Facebook Can Trigger Conflict CoupleS2 students from the University of Missouri School of Journalism to study. In the study, respondents were asked how often they use facebook and how often conflicts occur they cause. As a result, they found that the more often a person uses , then the tendency to experience conflict with a partner is also getting bigger. Use of Facebook which too often can lead to infidelity, break up, even divorce.
2. Show off Turns Relationship Status Have Negative EffectsWhen has a new lover, the majority of people would want others to know that he is no longer alone. Show affection through status or actual photo-commonplace commonplace only. But it would be another matter if you constantly show affection in the 'public sphere' such as social media.
Update the status of the relationship is constantly demonstrates that these people feel more insecure than happy. This was revealed in a study conducted at a number of universities in the United States and Canada. Another survey, published in the book 'The Science of Relationships' also revealed that most people get annoyed with those who always show affection in social media. By doing so, you could be personally less liked by others, possibly by his own friends.
3. Over 'Threatening' New Relationship love storyFor a couple who have a relationship, let's call it for one or three months, the effect is too often use social media can be larger. Researchers from St. Mary's University conducted a survey and found that the new couple dating relationship more vulnerable affected by their activity on Facebook and other social media.
4. Improve the Taste JealousAccording to the survey of 308 respondents, Facebook can trigger excessive jealousy because of several factors. The study, published in the journal CybePsychology & Behavior found that 19.1 percent of respondents jealous because so know more information about the partner, so that even greater suspicion.
While 16.2 percent of people say that Facebook is indeed contributing cause of their jealousy in a partner. Another with 10.3 percent of respondents who admitted to using social media for 'spying' lover. And 7.4 percent considered Facebook often cause misunderstandings between couples.
5. Too Much Selfie Make Love Feeling disregardedBased on the study headed by Dr. David Houghton, professor of marketing at Birmingham Business School, England, one can feel himself underappreciated when he saw his partner more posts selfie photos with friends than with a lover or family. So balance your photos on social media among pictures of yourself, friends, family and lovers.
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